Can’t Stop the Overthinking? These 10 Books Will Rewire Your Brain

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5 min readFeb 18, 2024

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Overthinking is a growing epidemic, with up to 70% of the population experiencing repetitive negative thoughts and rumination that fuel anxiety and hopelessness.

However, neuroscience reveals our neural pathways fueling overanalysis can transform through retraining mental habits. By reshaping cognition, we can rewrite the mind’s exhausting narratives.

Here are 10 powerful books to rewrite overthinking into clarity, presence, and freedom.

1. Dare by Barry McDonagh

(4.28/5 ⭐️)

Defeat panic and anxiety by leaning into uncertainty rather than avoiding it, thereby short-circuiting the overthinking feedback loops triggered by perceived threats.

“The idea here is to stop your brain from wrongly interpreting the sensations of anxiety as a threat and instead to trick your anxious mind into an excited state, the same kind of arousal you might feel if you were riding a roller coaster.” ― Barry McDonagh, Dare

2. The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb

(4.26/5 ⭐️)

Harness insights from neuroscience to catalyze an upward cascade of positive neural feedback that gradually displaces vortexes of negative rumination.

“In mountaineering, if you’re stuck in a bad situation and you don’t know the right way out, you just have to pick a direction and go. It doesn’t have to be the best direction; there may not even be a best direction. You certainly don’t have enough information to know for sure. So if you start down a path and end up at a cliff, you’ll just have to pick another direction from there. Because guess what? In a dire situation, you can’t be certain of the right path; what you do know is that if you sit there and do nothing, you’re screwed.” ― Alex Korb, The Upward Spiral

3. Anxious for Nothing by Max Lucado

(4.17/5 ⭐️)

Trade exhausting worry for uplifting prayer, verse-by-verse, to discharge anxiety and experience lasting relief by internalizing divine grace and guidance.

“Be anxious for nothing. Nada. Zilch. Zero. Is this what he meant? Not exactly. He wrote the phrase in the present active tense, which implies an ongoing state. It’s the life of perpetual anxiety that Paul wanted to address. The Lucado Revised Translation reads, “Don’t let anything in life leave you perpetually breathless and in angst.” The presence of anxiety is unavoidable, but the prison of anxiety is optional.” ― Max Lucado, Anxious for Nothing

4. How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie

(4.16/5 ⭐️)

Reorient your perspective through fundamental principles that help halt the endless rumination trap.

“Let’s not allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget. Remember “Life is too short to be little”.” ― Dale Carnegie, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living

5. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

(4.15/5 ⭐️)

Free yourself from the egoic mind’s compulsion to over-analyze the past and future by anchoring consciously into the stillness of the present moment.

“All negativity is caused by an accumulation of psychological time and denial of the present. Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are caused by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence.” ― Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now

6. Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff

(4.14/5 ⭐️)

Embrace self-compassion to quiet your inner critic, lift the shame that fuels obsessive perfectionism, and find peace as you are without overthinking everything.

“Whenever I notice something about myself I don’t like, or whenever something goes wrong in my life, I silently repeat the following phrases: This is a moment of suffering. Suffering is part of life. May I be kind to myself in this moment. May I give myself the compassion I need.” ― Kristin Neff, Self-Compassion

7. Rewire Your Anxious Brain by Catherine Pittman and Elizabeth Karle

(4.12/5 ⭐️)

Retrain your brain’s very pathways to intercept and circumvent the biochemical cycles that amplify obsessive worry.

“the brain is hardwired to allow the amygdala to seize control in times of danger. And because of this wiring, it’s difficult to directly use reason-based thought processes arising in the higher levels of the cortex to control amygdala-based anxiety. You may have already recognized that your anxiety often doesn’t make sense to your cortex, and that your cortex can’t just reason it away.” ― Catherine M. Pittman, Rewire Your Anxious Brain

8. Letting Go by David Hawkins

(4.09/5 ⭐️)

Relinquish toxic overthinking by systematically surrendering layers of emotional attachment, aversion, and perception that breed mental resistance and turbulence.

“We have the opportunity to choose whether we want to hang on or let go of emotional upsets. We can look at the cost of hanging on to them. Do we want to pay the price? Are we willing to accept the feelings? We can look at the benefits of letting go of them. The choice we make will determine our future. What kind of a future do we want? Will we choose to be healed, or will we become one of the walking wounded?” ― David R. Hawkins, Letting Go

9. The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund Bourne

(4.07/5 ⭐️)

Arm yourself with seven essential skills grounded in counseling theory to overcome the root insecurities perpetuating intrusive overanalysis and fear.

“An anxious mind cannot exist in a relaxed body.” Body and mind are inextricably related in anxiety.” ― Edmund J. Bourne, The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook

10. Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life by Steven Hayes

(4.06/5 ⭐️)

Break free of the futile struggle to control thoughts and accept all passing experiences openly so your mind can finally rest.

“When you try not to think of something, you do that by creating this verbal rule: “Don’t think of x.” That rule contains x, so it will tend to evoke x, just as the sounds “gub-gub” can evoke a picture of an imaginary animal. Thus, when we suppress our thoughts, we not only must think of something else, we have to hold ourselves back from thinking about why we are doing that. If we check to see whether our efforts are working, we will remember what we are trying not to think and we will think it. The worrisome thought thus tends to grow.” ― Steven C. Hayes, Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life

We all have the capacity to move from repetitive rumination to expansive self-actualization; let these insightful books light the path to your highest self.

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